The break up. It’s not easy, it’s not comfortable, it hurts, it feels like it’s never ending and sometimes wanting to go back to our ex despite logically knowing the break up is what’s best for you. The emotional part of you still feels attached. Here’s steps on how to let go of your ex.
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Cut off contact
It’s hard but it’s necessary, the answer is no you don’t need to be friends. You don’t need to text or call.
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Delete them on social media
Delete them off all social media platforms. Following them and checking what they are up to is not healthy for your healing and release of your ex.
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Let go of the fantasy
People often mourn the relationship they thought they could have. They remember all the good and forget about any of the negative. Remind yourself that the break up was necessary for your both if it was unhealthy and not working any longer.
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Make peace with the past
Forgiveness. Forgiveness is not about letting your ex of the hook for there actions, it’s about your emotional freedom.
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Know it’s ok to still love them
But know that love in itself is not what makes a healthy relationship. Love by itself is not enough to make a relationship work.
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Love yourself more
Never expect someone else to treat you better then you treat yourself. You are the model for how you deserve to be treated. Love yourself more to know your worth and give yourself the gift of letting go of a relationship that no longer was working out.
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Reach out to a therapist to support you on this journey.
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